Cultivating children’s sense of independence is a compulsory subject for every parent. According to relevant researches on children’s educational psychology, parents should learn to let go from an early age and cultivate children’s ability to live independently and self-control in an appropriate way. Independence requires preparation. It is a kind of rise after precipitation, which is thick and thin.
When the child is two or three years old, the child’s self-consciousness and gender consciousness begin to sprout. This is the stage of rapid development of the child’s independence, and it is also a good time to cultivate the child’s independence, and letting the child have his own bed is how he can live independently. It is also one of the necessary means to cultivate its independent consciousness.
However, many children are resistant to this because they are afraid of loneliness and insecurity, and no matter how parents persuade it, it still does not help. At this time, in addition to further guiding and encouraging children, parents also need to think.
Be sure to arrange an exclusive activity space for him as much as possible, which is very important for the child’s growth and development. After reaching a certain age, children must sleep in separate rooms with their parents. If the child sleeps with the parents for a long time, it will greatly hinder the child’s character development. For families with young couples, it is best to decorate a children’s bedroom for the child in advance. If the living environment is too small, try to isolate the child as much as possible in a separate small space for him to sleep by himself. You can also set up a children’s play area in the living room, so that children can play happily at home. The living room has a large space, and children can have more fun.
In the small balcony, in addition to an “art corner”, a “reading corner” can also be set up. Arrange a small bookshelf on the balcony, and regularly update books for children, so that children can develop the habit of loving reading from an early age.